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The latter is something that gay culture has been verging toward ever since marriage equality became the major political push. This is a product of two things: a smaller gay community (to where, unlike New York or Madrid, you can actually call it a community) and mainstreaming. Better not mention you manage your health responsibly and take PrEP, regardless of how many sexual partners you plan to have, or it's the scarlet letter for you.Īs in I am awesome at not letting my Puritanical upbringing shame me Here, however, the judgement level is high. Much like how you can throw into a casual conversation you smoke marijuana and take for granted the listener either smokes too or doesn't really care what you do with your own lungs. Everyone kind of manages their sexual life in whatever way they want to without much of a hang up one way or another.
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In New York, by and large, this is something we pay little attention to. We fuck double because we don't have to worry about pregnancy and until recently marriage wasn't really in the cards. Why is this even an issue? Why are we making this a thing? We're humans. So many sexual stories I'm told, especially by people who I may not know well, start with a disclaimer: "I'm not a whore, but." I don't care if you're a whore. The first and most striking difference I notice is how a lot of people are obsessed, to a greater or lesser extent, with looking like a whore or not looking like one or they can't decide which they want to be. While the welcoming vibe almost certainly has to do with it being a smaller city, that also presents problems as well. But coming into gay culture in New York City has left me eternally spoiled by what I expect from gay and queer culture, and Indianapolis is no exception.
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Greg's being the first to come to mind and Tini's being the last, because that place is bougey as hell. Some places are more welcoming than others, of course. And here you definitely do find both of those things here, though their manifestations are different. When I was in Colombia, I lamented how Colombian gay culture lacked the welcoming vibe I found in Spanish and US gay culture and how it had been Stockholm syndromed by straight culture. Well, I said I'd do it, and here it is: a follow up to my second most popular entry to date.